It's common to talk of life as being a "journey," a metaphor which is so commonplace that it's an old fashioned cliché. It's commonplace to map our lives as well as calculate our bank balances and mark our major milestones in the form of GPS locations. If life is an ongoing journey and love doesn't only mean one of the stops along the way, it's an energy source, a compasses, and the primary motive behind us going.
In a society increasingly defined by productivity, algorithms as well as digital photos of "success," the raw and unpolished significance of love may be marginalized. But, when you strip off the labels and piles of paperwork, love remains the sole thing that can give the passing of time meaningful meaning.
The Architecture of Belonging
In the simplest sense we are wired for connections. Humans aren't isolated islands, our social networks are. Since the time we first step into this planet, our survival is dependent on the bonds of affection. This instinctual need eventually evolves into a psychological need.
Love is love with the "psychological oxygen" we need to flourish. Without it, our journey is like a cold, mechanical experience. When we feel felt loved, we are "seen." The power of love lies to know that someone else acknowledges your weaknesses, your anxieties, as well as your odd tiny habits -- and decides to stick with them. A sense of belonging provides the foundation for security and permits us to make a risk when we are in different areas of our lives. It's a lot simpler to traverse the tightrope knowing you have a security web of love and affection waiting for you below.
Love as the Ultimate Resilience Factor
The road isn't always straight highway. There are potholes as well as detours and engine malfunctions. In those unavoidable "lows," love acts as an absorber of shock.
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Shared burdens: The burden of grief, if carried by itself, is a burden that can be incredibly heavy. When it's shared with a partner as well as a friend or someone from your family The burden is shared. The love doesn't make pain go away, but it does make the suffering more bearable.
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the Mirror of Worth: Even in our most difficult times We often fail to see our importance. The mirror of love serves as a mirror reflecting back a reflection of ourselves worth taking care of regardless of feeling as if we're failing.
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Hormonal Harmony Research supports this. Positive, loving relationships release the hormone oxytocin, and decrease the production of cortisol (the chemical that causes stress). It is a literal way of saying it protects our hearts and helps strengthen our immune systems over the long run.
The Different Dialects of Love
Many of us make the error of condensing "love" down to romance. However, the significance of love in our daily path lies in its variety. For a successful life you must cultivate affection in all forms:
- Philia (Friendship): These are the people that choose to be with us. Friendship is the source of joy and "me too" moments that makes the boring parts of our journey enjoyable.
- Storge (Family): This is the root love. It's the intricate, deep-rooted relationship that brings us back to of where we come from.
- Agape (Selfless love): This is our love for strangers, to our neighbors or an organization. it connects each of us to our collective story.
- The Philautia (Self-Love): Perhaps one of the most overlooked. The only one that you'll spend each and every moment of your journey with. If you're not in love with yourself, your journey will turn into an internal struggle.
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Growth Through the "Hard Parts" of Love
There is a myth that says the love of your life is always sweet and effortless. Actually, the best and most "humanizing" part of love is the fact that it's hard. The process of love requires us to work on the muscles that we would not otherwise use: patience, forgiveness as well as humility and sacrifice.
On the road to life the love of our life is our most powerful instructor. It helps us realize that we're not at the center all of creation. We are forced to make compromises and view the world from another's eyes. The expansion of our perspectives is the essence of "growth." There is no way to truly experience the world if you've never been influenced by the necessity of taking care of someone else.
Love and the Legacy of the Journey
As people come to the end of their travels and are done with their journey, they seldom wish that they'd spent more time in the office or an expensive vehicle. "Deathbed clarity" or "deathbed clarity" almost always is centered around relations.
"Love is the only thing we can leave behind that doesn't rot or rust."
Our influence upon the hearts of people around us is the only lasting legacy we can leave. The kindness we show is a piece of the map that someone else is on and helps them to navigate their own path even after we've left. It's a kind that is eternal, creating a ripple effect of warmth and kindness that lives on throughout all of the earth.
Conclusion: Choosing Love Daily
The concept of love isn't something that happens randomly to us. It's an everyday decision we make day. It's the decision we make to show kindness when fatigued or irritable, to listen even to those who would rather talk, and to remain in the moment when it's more convenient to be critical. When it comes to the big picture of life, love can be one of the reasons for "why." It transforms a home into the home of its owner, a crowd into a family and an existence into an authentic one. Without it, we're only a solitary space traveler. It is the reason we're finally back home.
